It’s 2011 and we women are still allowing our sexuality to be judged by society. We still allow the words slut, whore, bitch, etc. to be used to slander our names. And out of fear of being degraded and labeled one of those  titles, we keep our sexuality taboo and quiet. It’s time for change. We are standing at the origination of a powerful female nation. The pussy and its desire is nothing to be ashamed of. Just because a woman talks about the experiences of her pussy, does not make her any less of a woman. In fact, it elevates her to the epitome of womanhood because she accepts the spirituality, power, and influence her pussy has on the world. That’s why we have decided to take the word “slut” which is one of many words used to degrade women and claim it as a word of empowerment. We as women are no longer permitting others to use such words to define us. Rather, we’re choosing to redefine these words. We have that control and we’re ready to use it.

When a woman talks about how many lovers she has had or the fact she enjoys sex with different people, she’s labeled as something filthy. Other women may think that she lacks morals and the men may think she’s a sure thing but perhaps it’s something different. Perhaps she’s simply comfortable with her sexuality. Presuming such a woman lacks morality or would lay down with any man who’d have her does not agree with the statistics. Typically women who are comfortable with themselves, don’t believe that every man deserves the privilege. In fact, these women tend to have high standards for their lovers and and unwillingness to compromise them. These are very picky ladies but their standards don’t serve the purpose of sussing out some life-long mate.  However, she still might not want a relationship. Ladies, just because you are attracted to a certain man doesn’t mean that another woman is attracted to him. Especially a slut! We don’t want your man! Men, just because it is known we have sex and like it, doesn’t mean we will fuck you!

The world has fooled people to think women that who use their sexuality to tempt men are all whores who really fuck anyone. Not so! Sex or sexy is a business like anything else. Any media geared towards any subject is a business! Just because a person hosts a talk show about eating healthy, doesn’t mean when the camera’s off they actually eat healthy.  Also, there is a perception that a woman who uses her sex in any manner to create a business is not smart.  That she does not have a brain that’s why she uses sex. This is also bullshit! Just like every rapper isn’t really a thug or every athlete isn’t a talented idiot. It’s entertainment! It could be a character being sold for business purposes. There are rappers who are college educated and never been to jail. There are very intelligent athletes. There are very smart women who still prefer to pursue sexuality.  The media depends on the world holding on to  stereotypes and labels. It’s good for sales! That’s why Hollywood hires publicist to create an image. Who do you think spreads the rumors? Who do you think releases the video tapes?

Talking about sex is a business. Acting sexual is a business. Flaunting promiscuity is also a business. Just because my blog mates and I talk openly about our experiences and are comfortable with our sex lives, doesn’t mean we sleep with or blow everybody. I know people will love to think that. And because they do, we will get a lot of attention and admirers. Great! You have contributed to our intentions. Don’t think for a minute that we just sleep around from man to woman to man to woman. If that is a fantasy that keeps you a fan, cool! We enjoy the fame that comes from it. It’s our career.But that is not our reality. We have decided to make talking about sex a profession. We practice freedom of speech. We decide who we are intimate with.

Tight

I expose my self

as a

really “loose”
ride

A really open and liberated

had over and over

as if I was born via

1975

The era of free love

and experimentation

woman

Wide as the sea

and as deep

You have to put on

scuba gear

and hours of oxygen

to get to my bottom

You would have to be

the size of 10 rulers

and as thick

as a telephone pole

just to fill my hole

That’s how I present myself
like I have opened
to let the world in

In a month’s time

I have sexually unwind

Once maybe twice

I have a private objective

a dark secret

I have yet to tell

that I am

choosey

and selective as hell

I love to use my mouth

and my pussy

willingly

to those

I’ve a picked

out of a small bundle

Yes I’ve made mistakes

sometimes I slip up and stumble

Giving to what I thought was a stallion

but that comes along with the territory

of living everyday

and exploring

OR

sometimes I

get really bored

and lonely

as most that are single do

I might

invite

a little spark over

late night

Still it’s a chosen few

who be

a survivor

after the sexual fury of me

I have a public image

I have to uphold

It’s a personality

a fame monster

that has been sold

True
I like it

True I have done things
To live up to it

Wild and spread

to many of dicks

not my shit

I still have my grip

But I like for my admirers to think it

I have an audience

I refuse to not give them what

they came here for.

They scream and beg
They expect more

Living vicariously
through the feral part of me

Iam sex

Breathing

walking

Taking

Nastiness

I’m a carefree

Non monogamy

Seductress

Privately

I’m

vulnerable

some what traditional

idealistic

and submissive

as if I was a

little house wife

with a white picket fence

If anyone had any commonsense

or insight

they wouldn’t

think that my pussy

was involved

In a 8 or 9 contestant cockfight

or it’s a

a huge den

of sexual immoral

sin

populate to be the size of

Wisconsin

Fitting over 10 thousand men

Honestly fuck their opinion

I am really

tired of being talked over

and attempted to be persuaded

These masculine tramps

who want me to be easy and

manipulated

To tap the ass

and spill their load

And widen me like

A 5 lane road

But no no no

I have to keep it together

contracted

constricted

kegel muscles

strong

Not stretched

shapeless and worn

I
Maybe or maybe not

one day

be

the right man’s wife

My bridal attire will be a ivory beige color

I’m not pure enough

to live up to virgin white

but still

I believe in a small portion of

virtue

and keep it tight

When I meet someone I’m interested in, and I’m ready to take the friendship to the next level; I ask myself two questions. Is this person someone who I can date and give my heart to? Or is this just a hook up for when I’m horny and between relationships? Depending on how I answer those questions is when I decide how uninhibited the sex is. How far I will let a man go with my body depends on my first impression of him. If he has the personality traits that meet my standards and has the potential to be a great love, then I will let him give me cunnilingus. Amazing head is very dangerous. Especially since it’s not a lot of men that can do it right.

If a man can give great fourplay and his intercourse is mind blowing then the heart automatically get s involved for women.  Think about it, if he is fine as hell and good in bed, he is lethal. We women are emotional creatures. It’s hard to hold back and separate good sex from a relationship. Most of us are not wired like men. We can’t have great multiple orgasms and walk away. A man will allow a woman to give him head over and over knowing that he will never be with her.We  women will try to make it work with a no good man who is a master in the bedroom. This is the biggest fuck up! Because you spend so much valuable energy hurting, crying and trying to make things work. That guy should have been a hook up or a friend. He was not compatible in the beginning. Every man and woman is not made to be together. That’s one of the reasons the divorce rate is high and their are so many children had out of wedlock. There are a lot of men and women who were married that hate each other now. Only thing they had in common was good sex!

That’s why I limit my interactions with men in my bedroom. I don’t like my emotions to be toyed with. I only get really freaky with men I want to seriously be involved with. Hell I don’t even like spending the night with men I just hook up with. Some have slipped through the cracks. But mostly, I send them home or I leave afterwards.

It’s Tantra belief that when a man licks your clit he can elevate you to a spiritual place. It’s been a couple times that I thought I was in heaven. And those men and I had an emotional connection. Infact, I let a man who I should’ve never dated eat me out. I was stuck with that no good bastard for 3 years. It was horrible, but I couldn’t let go. He was amazing at it and he could fuck as well. I tried to date other men to get over him but I kept coming back. He would lick it any place any time.  We would get really nasty! I paid the price in the end. He took me through hell!  So this is why this rule is so important for me. If you need that kind of stimulation, I suggest getting a vibrator. I recommend the bullet with  a silicon cover.

Some women won’t sleep with a man period unless they are in a relationship. That’s cool. But I’m sorry I have to know a man’s stroke before falling in love. What if he is good on paper but horrible in the bedroom? Have you ever seen Sex and the City, when Charlotte married Trey before having sex? See what happened? It took him months before he could get it up!  You take a car for a test drive before buying it to make sure it’s right for you? Same rule applies to men. Worst thing you could do is get involved with a man who is horrible at sex. Let’s see how deep in love you will stay!

I advise any woman to make sure the man she is involved  is worth giving her heart to before  she starts getting freaky with him. It’s best not to waste valuable time. We are not getting younger! A woman’s years are precious and not to be taken for granted. Make sure he is a good man to you before pushing his head down.

Selective Interaction with The Tongue

I don’t let every tongue between my legs

I said

You see

The tongue has a certain possession over the pussy

Convincing the heart to love

clouding judgement

over powering the head

A kiss of cunnilingus

Can be spiritual

It posses Tantric power

That’s life altering

As the mouth sucks and caress the clit

The body experiences

an euphoria,

A heavenly divinity

A supernatural bliss

And honestly, I don’t know right now in my life

That I’m ready or prepared for this

So NO!

Not just any man can spread my thighs

and go

down

Because its has been said or maybe it was somewhere I read

That if he fucks around

and does its right

Then he will have me

Miss loving to be free

craving him

desiring him night after night

Capturing and holding claim to me

I will be his prisoner

Completely

Obsessed

His prize

His trophy

One of his conquests

All during my day

He will own my thoughts
and

my pussy’s emotions who love to

manipulate my heart

then my mind will soon follow

Sold

Because a flicker of the tongue has been known to have that kind of control

At the very moment when he tries to slide sweetly to his knees

I will cry out and  beg him please

Don’t.

I’m really not trying to be rude

For love and commitment

I’m just not in the mood

Even though he requests

on his face I will not sit

to grind my hips

back and forth

over his lips

I will not allow myself to feel his licks from behind or his finger tips (at the same time)

entering me.

I don’t want to take a chance on romance

For a relationship I just don’t have the energy

Some say its a folks tale or a historical myth

but us who have been there know its some dangerous shit.

It can drive a woman mad

making her act out, attack, and throw horrible fits

In most cases the tongue can out do the dick

and  I’m not even trying to get involved with it

So I declare from this moment forward

I will be the only one who might

not always but maybe

offer oral

To someone who I really kinda like

Because from what I’m told

Fellatio

can make a mortal woman in to a goddess (If she performs at her best )

Giving her the power and the ultimate  control.

Men love to make women jealous. It makes them feel loved and wanted, giving them bragging rights.  However, I never get jealous. I just get even. I’ve learned how to control my emotions and redirect my energies. I’ve used this plan a couple of times and it works like a charm. When you are out in public with a  man who has your interest, and If he starts to flirt with other women, it could be a game to upset you. This is what he’ll do. He will start by giving a girl the eye, then talking to her more than you. He will act like he didn’t mean to give her more attention. He was just being friendly. I know most of you fall for it and end up going home pissed and angry. That’s the response he wanted. You fell right into his scheme. He has your emotions, playing with them like a yo-yo! Oh but there is such a better way to deal with a situation like this.  You have to learn ladies, how to reverse this bullshit. And I’m going to teach you how.

When he tries that flirting with other women shit, just ignore it and keep smiling. Play cool! IT’S IMPORTANT TO PLAY COOL! That’s the biggest problem when you see another woman giving your man the googly eyes. Your first impulse is to get upset and scream “bitch! What are you looking at?” But there is no need to get Katy and mess up your make up! Just smile and keep it in lady mode. Take all that hostile energy and push it deep down inside turning it into sex energy. When you get that man alone you try to fuck his brains out! You turn acrobatic on his ass! Maybe you should drink a Red Bull and a 5 hour energy drink beforehand. Works for me! You make him scream and speak in languages he doesn’t know. Make him cum so hard that he’s comatose for the night and sucking his thumb while he sleeps.

Now you are ready for the next step.

Go to the mall and purchase the sexiest hot dress you can find and a pair of come fuck me heels. Make sure your hair, nails, and toes look perfect. The next time he takes you out, walk off and leave him standing there. Or, if you go out and see him don’t speak or give any eye contact at all. Ignore him all night! If he tries to walk up to you, then go the other way. Dance and party all night long like he doesn’t exist.

Now here’s the most important part. Find another sexy man in the room and flirt with him. Put on your best performance. Laugh and smile like everything he says is really interesting and funny. Let him hold your hand just a little. Get out on the dance floor and show off. I bet you in no time at all, your man will loose it. He will get so damn mad and jealous. Every where you go he will follow like a lost puppy. Don’t give in and pay him attention! Keeping ignoring but watching him out the corner of your eye. Just in case he tries to turn into the Incredible Hulk, you’ll have enough time to get the hell out the way! But if that doesn’t happen, just play it off until it’s time to leave. Give your new friend a hug and tell him goodbye because you weren’t interested in him anyway. Leave the place still holding it together. Then get in your car and laugh your ass off. You have just accomplished what most women don’t have the guts or patience to do!

Either two things will happen.  Scenario one, He will follow you and start an argument. The way you handle this is by saying “look I’m tired, I don’t have time to argue. I was just having a good time and giving you space. I’m not a clinger!” Then hurry and leave!  He will start calling or texting you over and over! Don’t answer! I bet he will follow you home. Or scenario two, you will make it home and he will show up later. That’s the best because he has had time to think.  He is drowning in his feelings. He will show up ready to wax that ass! When he gets there and knocks on your door, play like he woke you up. Like you were not thinking about him at all! Try not to laugh! Act very serious. As you know, there is nothing better than “Angry Sex!”

Either way you got him. Now, if scenario three happens and he does nothing, than fuck him! He is not the right one anyway. You don’t want a man who won’t put up a fight for you!

Ladies, you can continue letting men get the best of you. You can sit around crying and being hurt; hoping one day things will change. You can allow jealousy and pain to rule you. (That’s so exhausting!) Or, you can get you head in the game and start to take control of your emotions.  It’s all up to you

Ladies, have ever look across at your man while riding down the highway and realized how sexy and fine he is.? And looking at that fine ass man reminds you how in love you are. You start getting really horny. Next thing you know you’re sliding closer and closer to him. Kissing his neck while unzipping his pants, you start easing your way down. Soon,  you have a mouth full and he can barely keep his mind on the road. Mmhmm! Happens to the best of us!

The damn highways are not safe~! That’s because women like me are distractions. We are kinky and free spirited. We like to play dirty sex games with our mates while driving down a busy freeway. It’s a woman job to make sure her man is happy and satisfied. She sometimes has to take matters in to her own hands or mouth even if it’s reckless behavior while in a motor vehicle. If he is the kind of man deserving of oral pleasure, please don’t limit yourself to the bedroom. Keep the romance and excitement alive! Make sure he knows that he can still get you hot and bothered. And the thought of that dick still makes you just as hungry as it did when you first met.  You want to keep him in love and whipped? Then you better unbuckle that seat belt and crawl under that steering wheel. It’s like  magic. You might not have time to stop or there might not be a private place. You’ll  just have to make due.

A disclosure: Every man cannot handle the road safely and get a blow job! Men you need to practice. You want your lady to show you love, than you better perfect multi-tasking! Head is nothing to loose your life over….hmmm well some is I guess. But, let’s not contribute to anyone’s death. Keep your eyes steady and focused. Release moans and groans excessively and as loud as possible. If you hold them in,  your eyes will roll in the back of your head and you will surely swerve into the next lane! Talk dirty encouraging her to continue, but DON’T LOOK DOWN! I’m not trying to instigate a wreck! I’m only promoting safe sex! Girls keep extra napkins around. There will be a mess. And what lady wants every one knowing her business once she’s reached her destination? Remember freak in the bedroom or car but sweetheart in public!

Girlies, highway playtime is just another way you can express  love and appreciation for that special man in your life. It’s fun and risky. It’s a guaranteed way into his heart and to keep him from wondering away from home.

Under( part 1)

The expressions on her face
alone
Every time her lips released him
was enough to procure his mind
She always wanted to convey her affection
her appreciation for him
She took her time and gave her undivided attention
Slow her motion to make sure she savored every taste of him
Feelings of her tongue along the curves
that was accompanied by the gentle firm grip of her mouth and the guide of her hands
sent an unmanageable vibration through his body
like a well orchestrated symphony.
This gave her persistence to continue
His hands wrapped around her long tresses
Controlled the range of intensity
Harder
Slower
Faster
Softer
His soul traveled through dimensions of ecstasy
The precision she demonstrated
The care
This was just the beginning…

I enjoy make up sex more than love making.  The mix of passion and frustration makes a man’s stroke deeper and longer.  After a vicious fight, I just can’t wait for my hair to be pulled and my clothes to ripped off. You should hear the sounds coming from my bedroom after a T.K.O. round for round battle. His hand prints stay on my ass for days.  Love and pain are equally fulfilling for me. Mouthy and tough as I am, I have to  be reminded who’s really in charge. My girlfriends know exactly what I’m talking about. When that man picks you up off the ground and tells you “spread them legs bitch!” Of course you have to give a struggle just so he can get stronger. You already know you will loose  control and end up on your knees. We live for that reassurance of ownership. Every time the girls and I discuss the sex we have with our men, we all agree it’s the best sex we have ever had.

When two people love each other the emotions are heightened. So when things get heated and feelings get hurt, loving making  turns in to hot rough fucking! The pussy gets tighter and the dick gets harder during an argument.The orgasm is incredible. Both people’s hearts are  in it.The things he whispers in your ear as he is tapping that G spot makes you scream and scratch. Wow! I can barely control myself just thinking about it. He feels like he has to prove who that pussy belongs to. And what’s better than the man you’re in love with putting that ass to bed?

Here is a little secret if you men didn’t know this already, women like to feel owned. We like to know we have you. We need to feel that aggression every once in a while. Even the worst disagreements can strengthen the bond in a relationship.

His Hostility Towards Me

He came in the middle of the night

aggressively knocking at my door

I awakened to his yells

As I opened the door

he forcefully barged his way in

out of breath

filled with anger

as if he was looking for someone in my bedroom

I just followed him quietly

half dazed

confused

I asked why are you here

I thought you were satisfied with your lover

Her innocence

Her loyalty

moved you

She is trust worthy

unlike me you said

Swiftly he turned trapping me tightly against the dresser

My night gown torn barely covering my body

It’s because of you I can’t sleep he said

You fucking bitch you’re playing this game.

With one hand around my throat and the other pulling my hair he continued clinching his teeth

When I close my eyes at night

I see you

I feel you

Your body covering mine while I bury myself deep with in  as you ride me

your back arched

your soft breast in the palm of my hands

I hear your voice begging me to go deeper

not to stop

your mouth sucking me until I explode

I realize that I need you

Then the thought of you loving another man

Giving him what you give me

Him putting his hands on you

His lips all over your body

You calling his name

The sex faces that you make

You biting your bottom lip as he strokes harder

Makes me enraged with hostility

Furious

I can’t stand it

Just the idea of someone else fucking you kills me.

Don’t you understand what you’re doing to me

As he said his last words his hand remaining around my throat barely allowing me to breathe

Now the other hand forcing between the cheeks of my ass

I opened my legs and stared into his eyes

and  replied

Fuck me!

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Women work really hard to provide for themselves. As a single self-sufficient woman in the dating scene, you meet a lot of attractive men who are not compatible for a relationship. However, these men are a great opportunity to fulfill late night needs. Men in their 20s are perfect for a quick sex session. They are young, healthy, sexual and full of energy. South Florida is full of young studs. It doesn’t take much to get one. Just show up to your favorite hot club after 12 a.m.  No! Don’t expect this amazing crazy orgasm. I mean they are young. There are still learning a woman’s body. They can’t replace the experiences of an older man when comes to the stroke! Clit stimulation is a minimum. I personally like to lay back and enjoy looking at that tight, muscular, hard, body. Most of the time, your climax will come from riding where you are doing all the work. And honestly, I don’t like waking up to them. It’s a select few I’ll let spend the night or stay over their place.  I do have to work in the morning and this way it keeps things separate.

As an older woman, you want someone that you can connect with emotionally and physically. Financially is extremely important as well. My personal attraction for a serious commitment is someone who is really laid back and mature. I man who doesn’t hang with too many guys and keeps his relationship private. Being a divorce woman I’ve already went through many stages that a young man is going through. So for me reality has set in.  I need a man that has been there and understands that. Life is to be enjoyed and its best when you have to deal with work and taking care of home to be with a man who can relax you with no drama. 95 percent of a relationship should be peaceful and filled with passion. And that is an easy accomplishment if you are dealing with someone whose on your maturity level.

Younger men are still trying to prove themselves. They are still going through the phases of hanging with the boys, listening to perverse rap music, partying all the time, and telling all their personal business. Honey, who wants to deal with that? Also, they still have insecurities and an ego that constantly needs to be nurtured. You waste a lot of time that you could spend on yourself trying to cater to them and mature them. It’s unnecessary frustration.True they can have a lot of potential. One day they will make a great mate for some lucky women. But it takes experience to get there.

Also, It’s not fair to a young person to have to give up his or her youth for a relationship with an older person. It’s selfish for any older woman to put that kind of stress on a younger man. So why not just enjoy him for what he is good for? I’ve  had a couple of sex sessions not expecting anything but that. In the end don’t expect your long term needs to be fulfilled. Just let it be  a good time.

Late night Misters( The Story of The Older Woman and The Younger Man)

He was standing in a crowd

with his boys

And as boys do

on a chill night

while watching foot ball

and drinking brew

They talk about the girls

Slanderous

Rude

Boastful

Crude

About their late night

fuck session

and how she let him

come over

He just needed to get laid he bragged

She wants me

She can’t get enough

He tapped it

with no dates

or promise

and left the next morning

It was so easy

He said

He has that kinda of influence over

women

They will take him

how they can get him

Feeling like he fit in

with the rest of the self proclaimed men

This boy

Felt as if he had a superman S on his chest

or a P for playa

He was accomplished and respected

because of the a.m pussy  he conquered

She always met up with the girls

on ladies night

just to hang out

Single ready to mingle

So as the ladies do

while dressed in the latest attire

rocking their 600 dollar Jimmy choos

they talked about their latest men

Not once did his name come up in

the conversation

or did she consider to mention

about their early morning rendezvous

He was a boy to her

No one she would date

never mind take seriously

So it was even better that he only wanted to come over late

She receives calls from him

Trying to have small talk

beating around the bush

He thought of himself to be a real smooth talker

She had no clue what the fuck he was saying

She just wished he would get to the point

She had to work the next morning

it was already 2.a.m.

He was not the best in bed at all

She did not even expect a superior orgasm

She wasn’t sure if he knew where her clit was

but he was always available at that certain time

That juvenile energy

He was quick and easy

A hot body

dumb

mouthy

and very cocky

He had nothing she wanted or he could offer her

He still lived at his mamas house or had a roommate

He kinda dressed like a hip hop puppet

or some silly reality show character

Didn’t really matter

She did not have to be seen with him in public

Or neither did she care

“I just need to get laid”

The voice said in the back of her head