When I meet someone I’m interested in, and I’m ready to take the friendship to the next level; I ask myself two questions. Is this person someone who I can date and give my heart to? Or is this just a hook up for when I’m horny and between relationships? Depending on how I answer those questions is when I decide how uninhibited the sex is. How far I will let a man go with my body depends on my first impression of him. If he has the personality traits that meet my standards and has the potential to be a great love, then I will let him give me cunnilingus. Amazing head is very dangerous. Especially since it’s not a lot of men that can do it right.
If a man can give great fourplay and his intercourse is mind blowing then the heart automatically get s involved for women. Think about it, if he is fine as hell and good in bed, he is lethal. We women are emotional creatures. It’s hard to hold back and separate good sex from a relationship. Most of us are not wired like men. We can’t have great multiple orgasms and walk away. A man will allow a woman to give him head over and over knowing that he will never be with her.We women will try to make it work with a no good man who is a master in the bedroom. This is the biggest fuck up! Because you spend so much valuable energy hurting, crying and trying to make things work. That guy should have been a hook up or a friend. He was not compatible in the beginning. Every man and woman is not made to be together. That’s one of the reasons the divorce rate is high and their are so many children had out of wedlock. There are a lot of men and women who were married that hate each other now. Only thing they had in common was good sex!
That’s why I limit my interactions with men in my bedroom. I don’t like my emotions to be toyed with. I only get really freaky with men I want to seriously be involved with. Hell I don’t even like spending the night with men I just hook up with. Some have slipped through the cracks. But mostly, I send them home or I leave afterwards.
It’s Tantra belief that when a man licks your clit he can elevate you to a spiritual place. It’s been a couple times that I thought I was in heaven. And those men and I had an emotional connection. Infact, I let a man who I should’ve never dated eat me out. I was stuck with that no good bastard for 3 years. It was horrible, but I couldn’t let go. He was amazing at it and he could fuck as well. I tried to date other men to get over him but I kept coming back. He would lick it any place any time. We would get really nasty! I paid the price in the end. He took me through hell! So this is why this rule is so important for me. If you need that kind of stimulation, I suggest getting a vibrator. I recommend the bullet with a silicon cover.
Some women won’t sleep with a man period unless they are in a relationship. That’s cool. But I’m sorry I have to know a man’s stroke before falling in love. What if he is good on paper but horrible in the bedroom? Have you ever seen Sex and the City, when Charlotte married Trey before having sex? See what happened? It took him months before he could get it up! You take a car for a test drive before buying it to make sure it’s right for you? Same rule applies to men. Worst thing you could do is get involved with a man who is horrible at sex. Let’s see how deep in love you will stay!
I advise any woman to make sure the man she is involved is worth giving her heart to before she starts getting freaky with him. It’s best not to waste valuable time. We are not getting younger! A woman’s years are precious and not to be taken for granted. Make sure he is a good man to you before pushing his head down.
Selective Interaction with The Tongue
I don’t let every tongue between my legs
The tongue has a certain possession over the pussy
Convincing the heart to love
over powering the head
A kiss of cunnilingus
Can be spiritual
It posses Tantric power
That’s life altering
As the mouth sucks and caress the clit
The body experiences
A heavenly divinity
A supernatural bliss
And honestly, I don’t know right now in my life
That I’m ready or prepared for this
Not just any man can spread my thighs
Because its has been said or maybe it was somewhere I read
That if he fucks around
and does its right
Then he will have me
Miss loving to be free
desiring him night after night
Capturing and holding claim to me
I will be his prisoner
One of his conquests
All during my day
He will own my thoughts
my pussy’s emotions who love to
manipulate my heart
then my mind will soon follow
Because a flicker of the tongue has been known to have that kind of control
At the very moment when he tries to slide sweetly to his knees
I will cry out and beg him please
I’m really not trying to be rude
For love and commitment
I’m just not in the mood
Even though he requests
on his face I will not sit
to grind my hips
back and forth
over his lips
I will not allow myself to feel his licks from behind or his finger tips (at the same time)
I don’t want to take a chance on romance
For a relationship I just don’t have the energy
Some say its a folks tale or a historical myth
but us who have been there know its some dangerous shit.
It can drive a woman mad
making her act out, attack, and throw horrible fits
In most cases the tongue can out do the dick
and I’m not even trying to get involved with it
So I declare from this moment forward
I will be the only one who might
not always but maybe
To someone who I really kinda like
Because from what I’m told
can make a mortal woman in to a goddess (If she performs at her best )
Giving her the power and the ultimate control.