Is it just me, or do other women like to get off in public? The other night, after I dropped my roommate off, I met up with a guy friend for a 3am breakfast. He proceeded to take off my panties, open my legs under the table, and use his hands to make me climax. I enjoyed every minute of it. You would think it would’ve been awkward being that we were in a diner. But it was kind of empty. When I cum really hard I’m loud. Yet, no one noticed or seemed to hear me. Funny the power of two fingers! It was spontaneous and sexy. A great way to start the day. I decided to write a little story inspired by the experience.
The Diner on 54TH
I’m not really hungry she said to him
They entered around 3 a.m.
He enjoyed early mornings out
It was quiet and allay
Far from the hustle and bustle of the congested city
They chose to sit at the counter so that nothing could keep him from touching her.
Except for them, the place was vacant.
The temperature drop made her cling to him
This made his rise.
He loved to feel the soft texture of her inner thigh against his fingertips,
He pulled her closer as the tip of his tongue grazed her bottom lip
God you smell so good he said, as his nosed gently brushed under her chin ending up at the opening between her breasts.
“Good morning. What would you like to start with” interrupted the waitress.
Just coffee and a piece of peach cobbler for me
He said
And you madam?
Nothing for me she replied in a heavy breath
The waitress quickly returned with the coffee and pie
Then vanished into the kitchen
Now they were alone but
Still visible in the tall wide windows that faced the street
His left hand now grasping the back of her neck while two fingers of his right hand, were tracing the curve in her panties between her thighs.
Her embrace grew tighter
Closer
Her nails tearing into his brown leather coat, while his fingers run down the plunging neckline of her dress
exposing her nipple.
Face to face they stare into each others eyes
He smiles.
Her knees shaking, repositioning farther apart
His fingers infringe her panties. Teasing her bare skin
Then firmly invading her
Her body flinches as she sighs with shock
She releases a moan with every breath
His fingers pick up the pace
She closes her eyes
As he kisses her cheek and then her ear
Are you cuming he whispers
Yes ….she answers as another moan escapes
How deep do you want me to go he asked
Deep she replies
Take it all and
Cum for me he demands
Yes baby cum for me he demands again
Her leg clinching the back of the barstool
Still undisturbed by passer bys or the kitchen attendant
They continue
Faster and harder he goes as she begs for more
Her hands unzipping his pants, she caresses him.
With her eyes remaining closed, she arches her back and tilts her head.
He takes her exposed breast into his mouth
This causes her to finally climax.
He removes his fingers, kisses them, then licks his lips
I bet this pie doesn’t taste as good as you he laughs
Everyone knows I’m a sucker for romance. A guy friend showed up to my door with an Ipod of old school music and a bottle of wine. And my cutie knows that’s all it takes for me. After working all day, I need to unwind and relax. So we stripped down to nothing and dance around the room. Now that’s sexy. His body rubbing against mine as the music plays. We go from John Legend’s High to Atlantic Star’s Slow jam. Of course we ended up on the kitchen floor. But the way he seduced me to that point was perfect.
I need that interaction that only happens between a man and woman. I welcome a smooth operator, a man that can sway with me. Even a tough girl like me will melt when a man grabs me around the waist and leads me to the rhythm. Remember those old movies when a man would see a girl across the room and try to get up the nerve to ask her for a dance. Then finally when he does and she accepts the entire room stops and there is nothing but them and the music. That still works for me.
The new wave of party people have it all wrong! I get so tired of going out to clubs and this horrible house music is playing. The guys hang with each other and the girls are dancing on the floor alone. The only man that wants to dance is the pervert who wants to feel you up. Fucking sickos! Then you have those people who want to sit at the bar and talk. What the hell are they talking about anyway? It’s a night club not a talk show! I would rather be off in the corner with a cute guy dancing and sweet talking. Lately, I just stay home and call someone over.
My new adventure will be finding old school clubs where the men come to meet women and slow dance. Not to talk me to death or stand over in the corner with their boys like they are in middle school. It’s so unattractive. When I find one I will let you all know
It’s 2011 and we women are still allowing our sexuality to be judged by society. We still allow the words slut, whore, bitch, etc. to be used to slander our names. And out of fear of being degraded and labeled one of those titles, we keep our sexuality taboo and quiet. It’s time for change. We are standing at the origination of a powerful female nation. The pussy and its desire is nothing to be ashamed of. Just because a woman talks about the experiences of her pussy, does not make her any less of a woman. In fact, it elevates her to the epitome of womanhood because she accepts the spirituality, power, and influence her pussy has on the world. That’s why we have decided to take the word “slut” which is one of many words used to degrade women and claim it as a word of empowerment. We as women are no longer permitting others to use such words to define us. Rather, we’re choosing to redefine these words. We have that control and we’re ready to use it.
When a woman talks about how many lovers she has had or the fact she enjoys sex with different people, she’s labeled as something filthy. Other women may think that she lacks morals and the men may think she’s a sure thing but perhaps it’s something different. Perhaps she’s simply comfortable with her sexuality. Presuming such a woman lacks morality or would lay down with any man who’d have her does not agree with the statistics. Typically women who are comfortable with themselves, don’t believe that every man deserves the privilege. In fact, these women tend to have high standards for their lovers and and unwillingness to compromise them. These are very picky ladies but their standards don’t serve the purpose of sussing out some life-long mate. However, she still might not want a relationship. Ladies, just because you are attracted to a certain man doesn’t mean that another woman is attracted to him. Especially a slut! We don’t want your man! Men, just because it is known we have sex and like it, doesn’t mean we will fuck you!
The world has fooled people to think women that who use their sexuality to tempt men are all whores who really fuck anyone. Not so! Sex or sexy is a business like anything else. Any media geared towards any subject is a business! Just because a person hosts a talk show about eating healthy, doesn’t mean when the camera’s off they actually eat healthy. Also, there is a perception that a woman who uses her sex in any manner to create a business is not smart. That she does not have a brain that’s why she uses sex. This is also bullshit! Just like every rapper isn’t really a thug or every athlete isn’t a talented idiot. It’s entertainment! It could be a character being sold for business purposes. There are rappers who are college educated and never been to jail. There are very intelligent athletes. There are very smart women who still prefer to pursue sexuality. The media depends on the world holding on to stereotypes and labels. It’s good for sales! That’s why Hollywood hires publicist to create an image. Who do you think spreads the rumors? Who do you think releases the video tapes?
Talking about sex is a business. Acting sexual is a business. Flaunting promiscuity is also a business. Just because my blog mates and I talk openly about our experiences and are comfortable with our sex lives, doesn’t mean we sleep with or blow everybody. I know people will love to think that. And because they do, we will get a lot of attention and admirers. Great! You have contributed to our intentions. Don’t think for a minute that we just sleep around from man to woman to man to woman. If that is a fantasy that keeps you a fan, cool! We enjoy the fame that comes from it. It’s our career.But that is not our reality. We have decided to make talking about sex a profession. We practice freedom of speech. We decide who we are intimate with.
Tight
I expose my self
as a
really “loose”
ride
A really open and liberated
had over and over
as if I was born via
1975
The era of free love
and experimentation
woman
Wide as the sea
and as deep
You have to put on
scuba gear
and hours of oxygen
to get to my bottom
You would have to be
the size of 10 rulers
and as thick
as a telephone pole
just to fill my hole
That’s how I present myself
like I have opened
to let the world in
When I meet someone I’m interested in, and I’m ready to take the friendship to the next level; I ask myself two questions. Is this person someone who I can date and give my heart to? Or is this just a hook up for when I’m horny and between relationships? Depending on how I answer those questions is when I decide how uninhibited the sex is. How far I will let a man go with my body depends on my first impression of him. If he has the personality traits that meet my standards and has the potential to be a great love, then I will let him give me cunnilingus. Amazing head is very dangerous. Especially since it’s not a lot of men that can do it right.
If a man can give great fourplay and his intercourse is mind blowing then the heart automatically get s involved for women. Think about it, if he is fine as hell and good in bed, he is lethal. We women are emotional creatures. It’s hard to hold back and separate good sex from a relationship. Most of us are not wired like men. We can’t have great multiple orgasms and walk away. A man will allow a woman to give him head over and over knowing that he will never be with her.We women will try to make it work with a no good man who is a master in the bedroom. This is the biggest fuck up! Because you spend so much valuable energy hurting, crying and trying to make things work. That guy should have been a hook up or a friend. He was not compatible in the beginning. Every man and woman is not made to be together. That’s one of the reasons the divorce rate is high and their are so many children had out of wedlock. There are a lot of men and women who were married that hate each other now. Only thing they had in common was good sex!
That’s why I limit my interactions with men in my bedroom. I don’t like my emotions to be toyed with. I only get really freaky with men I want to seriously be involved with. Hell I don’t even like spending the night with men I just hook up with. Some have slipped through the cracks. But mostly, I send them home or I leave afterwards.
It’s Tantra belief that when a man licks your clit he can elevate you to a spiritual place. It’s been a couple times that I thought I was in heaven. And those men and I had an emotional connection. Infact, I let a man who I should’ve never dated eat me out. I was stuck with that no good bastard for 3 years. It was horrible, but I couldn’t let go. He was amazing at it and he could fuck as well. I tried to date other men to get over him but I kept coming back. He would lick it any place any time. We would get really nasty! I paid the price in the end. He took me through hell! So this is why this rule is so important for me. If you need that kind of stimulation, I suggest getting a vibrator. I recommend the bullet with a silicon cover.
Some women won’t sleep with a man period unless they are in a relationship. That’s cool. But I’m sorry I have to know a man’s stroke before falling in love. What if he is good on paper but horrible in the bedroom? Have you ever seen Sex and the City, when Charlotte married Trey before having sex? See what happened? It took him months before he could get it up! You take a car for a test drive before buying it to make sure it’s right for you? Same rule applies to men. Worst thing you could do is get involved with a man who is horrible at sex. Let’s see how deep in love you will stay!
I advise any woman to make sure the man she is involved is worth giving her heart to before she starts getting freaky with him. It’s best not to waste valuable time. We are not getting younger! A woman’s years are precious and not to be taken for granted. Make sure he is a good man to you before pushing his head down.
Selective Interaction with The Tongue
I don’t let every tongue between my legs
I said
You see
The tongue has a certain possession over the pussy
Convincing the heart to love
clouding judgement
over powering the head
A kiss of cunnilingus
Can be spiritual
It posses Tantric power
That’s life altering
As the mouth sucks and caress the clit
The body experiences
an euphoria,
A heavenly divinity
A supernatural bliss
And honestly, I don’t know right now in my life
That I’m ready or prepared for this
So NO!
Not just any man can spread my thighs
and go
down
Because its has been said or maybe it was somewhere I read
That if he fucks around
and does its right
Then he will have me
Miss loving to be free
craving him
desiring him night after night
Capturing and holding claim to me
I will be his prisoner
Completely
Obsessed
His prize
His trophy
One of his conquests
All during my day
He will own my thoughts
and
my pussy’s emotions who love to
manipulate my heart
then my mind will soon follow
Sold
Because a flicker of the tongue has been known to have that kind of control
At the very moment when he tries to slide sweetly to his knees
I will cry out and beg him please
Don’t.
I’m really not trying to be rude
For love and commitment
I’m just not in the mood
Even though he requests
on his face I will not sit
to grind my hips
back and forth
over his lips
I will not allow myself to feel his licks from behind or his finger tips (at the same time)
entering me.
I don’t want to take a chance on romance
For a relationship I just don’t have the energy
Some say its a folks tale or a historical myth
but us who have been there know its some dangerous shit.
It can drive a woman mad
making her act out, attack, and throw horrible fits
In most cases the tongue can out do the dick
and I’m not even trying to get involved with it
So I declare from this moment forward
I will be the only one who might
not always but maybe
offer oral
To someone who I really kinda like
Because from what I’m told
Fellatio
can make a mortal woman in to a goddess (If she performs at her best )
Men love to make women jealous. It makes them feel loved and wanted, giving them bragging rights. However, I never get jealous. I just get even. I’ve learned how to control my emotions and redirect my energies. I’ve used this plan a couple of times and it works like a charm. When you are out in public with a man who has your interest, and If he starts to flirt with other women, it could be a game to upset you. This is what he’ll do. He will start by giving a girl the eye, then talking to her more than you. He will act like he didn’t mean to give her more attention. He was just being friendly. I know most of you fall for it and end up going home pissed and angry. That’s the response he wanted. You fell right into his scheme. He has your emotions, playing with them like a yo-yo! Oh but there is such a better way to deal with a situation like this. You have to learn ladies, how to reverse this bullshit. And I’m going to teach you how.
When he tries that flirting with other women shit, just ignore it and keep smiling. Play cool! IT’S IMPORTANT TO PLAY COOL! That’s the biggest problem when you see another woman giving your man the googly eyes. Your first impulse is to get upset and scream “bitch! What are you looking at?” But there is no need to get Katy and mess up your make up! Just smile and keep it in lady mode. Take all that hostile energy and push it deep down inside turning it into sex energy. When you get that man alone you try to fuck his brains out! You turn acrobatic on his ass! Maybe you should drink a Red Bull and a 5 hour energy drink beforehand. Works for me! You make him scream and speak in languages he doesn’t know. Make him cum so hard that he’s comatose for the night and sucking his thumb while he sleeps.
Now you are ready for the next step.
Go to the mall and purchase the sexiest hot dress you can find and a pair of come fuck me heels. Make sure your hair, nails, and toes look perfect. The next time he takes you out, walk off and leave him standing there. Or, if you go out and see him don’t speak or give any eye contact at all. Ignore him all night! If he tries to walk up to you, then go the other way. Dance and party all night long like he doesn’t exist.
Now here’s the most important part. Find another sexy man in the room and flirt with him. Put on your best performance. Laugh and smile like everything he says is really interesting and funny. Let him hold your hand just a little. Get out on the dance floor and show off. I bet you in no time at all, your man will loose it. He will get so damn mad and jealous. Every where you go he will follow like a lost puppy. Don’t give in and pay him attention! Keeping ignoring but watching him out the corner of your eye. Just in case he tries to turn into the Incredible Hulk, you’ll have enough time to get the hell out the way! But if that doesn’t happen, just play it off until it’s time to leave. Give your new friend a hug and tell him goodbye because you weren’t interested in him anyway. Leave the place still holding it together. Then get in your car and laugh your ass off. You have just accomplished what most women don’t have the guts or patience to do!
Either two things will happen. Scenario one, He will follow you and start an argument. The way you handle this is by saying “look I’m tired, I don’t have time to argue. I was just having a good time and giving you space. I’m not a clinger!” Then hurry and leave! He will start calling or texting you over and over! Don’t answer! I bet he will follow you home. Or scenario two, you will make it home and he will show up later. That’s the best because he has had time to think. He is drowning in his feelings. He will show up ready to wax that ass! When he gets there and knocks on your door, play like he woke you up. Like you were not thinking about him at all! Try not to laugh! Act very serious. As you know, there is nothing better than “Angry Sex!”
Either way you got him. Now, if scenario three happens and he does nothing, than fuck him! He is not the right one anyway. You don’t want a man who won’t put up a fight for you!
Ladies, you can continue letting men get the best of you. You can sit around crying and being hurt; hoping one day things will change. You can allow jealousy and pain to rule you. (That’s so exhausting!) Or, you can get you head in the game and start to take control of your emotions. It’s all up to you
New York was ugly and stormy yesterday. I had to cancel all my plans and settle for a night in. What better to do on a rainy night than call over a friend to keep me warm and safe? I would say dry but that defeats the purpose of rainy weather company. I wanted more than a good time. Lately, a certain girlfriend of mine has inspired me to concentrate on someone that I have a real connection with. She sent me a couple of beautiful songs to accompany a passionate night of love making. Listening to the rain tapping outside the window of my high rise Manhattan loft, brought out the romantic side in me. Never giving names, I scanned through my Iphone for that guy who knew my body the best. In no time he was at my door with wine and condoms. I made him battle through a fucking storm to get this. Good boy! Anyone who wants this, has to go through obstacles to taste my rainbow.
The music was a mixture of old school r&b , jazz, and a couple of young artists; Marvin Gaye, Stevie wonder, Floetry, Marsha Ambrosius and Trey Songz. I love Trey, he makes me cum over and over! The Neighbors Know My Name has been my favorite song since last year. Thank God for the repeat button! The rhythm carried us through that hurricane with no interruptions. All I can say is Late night, early mornings! I’m tired as hell and about to go back bed, but it was all worth it. I can’t wait for the next storm!
Ladies, have ever look across at your man while riding down the highway and realized how sexy and fine he is.? And looking at that fine ass man reminds you how in love you are. You start getting really horny. Next thing you know you’re sliding closer and closer to him. Kissing his neck while unzipping his pants, you start easing your way down. Soon, you have a mouth full and he can barely keep his mind on the road. Mmhmm! Happens to the best of us!
The damn highways are not safe~! That’s because women like me are distractions. We are kinky and free spirited. We like to play dirty sex games with our mates while driving down a busy freeway. It’s a woman job to make sure her man is happy and satisfied. She sometimes has to take matters in to her own hands or mouth even if it’s reckless behavior while in a motor vehicle. If he is the kind of man deserving of oral pleasure, please don’t limit yourself to the bedroom. Keep the romance and excitement alive! Make sure he knows that he can still get you hot and bothered. And the thought of that dick still makes you just as hungry as it did when you first met. You want to keep him in love and whipped? Then you better unbuckle that seat belt and crawl under that steering wheel. It’s like magic. You might not have time to stop or there might not be a private place. You’ll just have to make due.
A disclosure: Every man cannot handle the road safely and get a blow job! Men you need to practice. You want your lady to show you love, than you better perfect multi-tasking! Head is nothing to loose your life over….hmmm well some is I guess. But, let’s not contribute to anyone’s death. Keep your eyes steady and focused. Release moans and groans excessively and as loud as possible. If you hold them in, your eyes will roll in the back of your head and you will surely swerve into the next lane! Talk dirty encouraging her to continue, but DON’T LOOK DOWN! I’m not trying to instigate a wreck! I’m only promoting safe sex! Girls keep extra napkins around. There will be a mess. And what lady wants every one knowing her business once she’s reached her destination? Remember freak in the bedroom or car but sweetheart in public!
Girlies, highway playtime is just another way you can express love and appreciation for that special man in your life. It’s fun and risky. It’s a guaranteed way into his heart and to keep him from wondering away from home.
Under( part 1)
The expressions on her face
alone
Every time her lips released him
was enough to procure his mind
She always wanted to convey her affection
her appreciation for him
She took her time and gave her undivided attention
Slow her motion to make sure she savored every taste of him
Feelings of her tongue along the curves
that was accompanied by the gentle firm grip of her mouth and the guide of her hands
sent an unmanageable vibration through his body
like a well orchestrated symphony.
This gave her persistence to continue
His hands wrapped around her long tresses
Controlled the range of intensity
Harder
Slower
Faster
Softer
His soul traveled through dimensions of ecstasy
The precision she demonstrated
The care
This was just the beginning…
I enjoy make up sex more than love making. The mix of passion and frustration makes a man’s stroke deeper and longer. After a vicious fight, I just can’t wait for my hair to be pulled and my clothes to ripped off. You should hear the sounds coming from my bedroom after a T.K.O. round for round battle. His hand prints stay on my ass for days. Love and pain are equally fulfilling for me. Mouthy and tough as I am, I have to be reminded who’s really in charge. My girlfriends know exactly what I’m talking about. When that man picks you up off the ground and tells you “spread them legs bitch!” Of course you have to give a struggle just so he can get stronger. You already know you will loose control and end up on your knees. We live for that reassurance of ownership. Every time the girls and I discuss the sex we have with our men, we all agree it’s the best sex we have ever had.
When two people love each other the emotions are heightened. So when things get heated and feelings get hurt, loving making turns in to hot rough fucking! The pussy gets tighter and the dick gets harder during an argument.The orgasm is incredible. Both people’s hearts are in it.The things he whispers in your ear as he is tapping that G spot makes you scream and scratch. Wow! I can barely control myself just thinking about it. He feels like he has to prove who that pussy belongs to. And what’s better than the man you’re in love with putting that ass to bed?
Here is a little secret if you men didn’t know this already, women like to feel owned. We like to know we have you. We need to feel that aggression every once in a while. Even the worst disagreements can strengthen the bond in a relationship.
His Hostility Towards Me
He came in the middle of the night
aggressively knocking at my door
I awakened to his yells
As I opened the door
he forcefully barged his way in
out of breath
filled with anger
as if he was looking for someone in my bedroom
I just followed him quietly
half dazed
confused
I asked why are you here
I thought you were satisfied with your lover
Her innocence
Her loyalty
moved you
She is trust worthy
unlike me you said
Swiftly he turned trapping me tightly against the dresser
My night gown torn barely covering my body
It’s because of you I can’t sleep he said
You fucking bitch you’re playing this game.
With one hand around my throat and the other pulling my hair he continued clinching his teeth
When I close my eyes at night
I see you
I feel you
Your body covering mine while I bury myself deep with in as you ride me
your back arched
your soft breast in the palm of my hands
I hear your voice begging me to go deeper
not to stop
your mouth sucking me until I explode
I realize that I need you
Then the thought of you loving another man
Giving him what you give me
Him putting his hands on you
His lips all over your body
You calling his name
The sex faces that you make
You biting your bottom lip as he strokes harder
Makes me enraged with hostility
Furious
I can’t stand it
Just the idea of someone else fucking you kills me.
Don’t you understand what you’re doing to me
As he said his last words his hand remaining around my throat barely allowing me to breathe
Now the other hand forcing between the cheeks of my ass
In two weeks, I will be heading down to Atlanta to hang with Emmanuelle, Kimberly, and Elaina. I’m desperately in need of some private naughty girl time. We plan to get into all kinds of mischief. Southerners are friendly and welcoming. They are fun and outgoing. Totally different from the snobs of Manhattan. Don’t get me wrong, I love being a New Yorker, But I do enjoy the sweet escape of a secretly uninhibited world. Georgia is perfect because it’s not expected. It seems to be hillbilly and psycho religious since it’s a part of the bible belt. But, I have experienced the wildest sex parties imaginable. Even celebrities are hip to this cities hush hush pastime. On numerous occasions, I have shared a girlfriend or two with a well known superstar. I will let your imagination run wild with ideas of who they could be. Shhh
The states capital has a conservative family oriented feel during the day. But at night the cities professionals really know how to let loose. Orgies are abundant! It’s sound crazy but yes! It’s a full on adult fuck fest! First you start out at the strip club for a little bump and grind with a couple of friends (Everyone hangs at the strip club in Atlanta). Then, after the club closes, it’s time to get down and dirty. It’s not called the dirty south for nothing. I get wet thinking about the last time I was there. The feel of a woman’s tongue and a man’s fingers is breath taking! Southern women are sweet and lovely. Their accents are sexy and those thick asses are delicious! The men are gentle but rough. What’s great about “Hotlanta” is that you can taste every flavor of the rainbow. The city is as multicultural as my assortment of friends. Blacks and whites tasting and invading each others bedrooms. My W hotel suite will be like a we are the world revolving door
Never underestimate the south. Atlanta is highly populated with middle age professional freaks. Most you wouldn’t expect. You would be clueless looking at them. Believe me they are hiding their nastiness. I can’t wait for the girls and I to step off the plane and head out into the darkness.
