Women work really hard to provide for themselves. As a single self-sufficient woman in the dating scene, you meet a lot of attractive men who are not compatible for a relationship. However, these men are a great opportunity to fulfill late night needs. Men in their 20s are perfect for a quick sex session. They are young, healthy, sexual and full of energy. South Florida is full of young studs. It doesn’t take much to get one. Just show up to your favorite hot club after 12 a.m. No! Don’t expect this amazing crazy orgasm. I mean they are young. There are still learning a woman’s body. They can’t replace the experiences of an older man when comes to the stroke! Clit stimulation is a minimum. I personally like to lay back and enjoy looking at that tight, muscular, hard, body. Most of the time, your climax will come from riding where you are doing all the work. And honestly, I don’t like waking up to them. It’s a select few I’ll let spend the night or stay over their place. I do have to work in the morning and this way it keeps things separate.
As an older woman, you want someone that you can connect with emotionally and physically. Financially is extremely important as well. My personal attraction for a serious commitment is someone who is really laid back and mature. I man who doesn’t hang with too many guys and keeps his relationship private. Being a divorce woman I’ve already went through many stages that a young man is going through. So for me reality has set in. I need a man that has been there and understands that. Life is to be enjoyed and its best when you have to deal with work and taking care of home to be with a man who can relax you with no drama. 95 percent of a relationship should be peaceful and filled with passion. And that is an easy accomplishment if you are dealing with someone whose on your maturity level.
Younger men are still trying to prove themselves. They are still going through the phases of hanging with the boys, listening to perverse rap music, partying all the time, and telling all their personal business. Honey, who wants to deal with that? Also, they still have insecurities and an ego that constantly needs to be nurtured. You waste a lot of time that you could spend on yourself trying to cater to them and mature them. It’s unnecessary frustration.True they can have a lot of potential. One day they will make a great mate for some lucky women. But it takes experience to get there.
Also, It’s not fair to a young person to have to give up his or her youth for a relationship with an older person. It’s selfish for any older woman to put that kind of stress on a younger man. So why not just enjoy him for what he is good for? I’ve had a couple of sex sessions not expecting anything but that. In the end don’t expect your long term needs to be fulfilled. Just let it be a good time.
Late night Misters( The Story of The Older Woman and The Younger Man)
He was standing in a crowd
with his boys
And as boys do
on a chill night
while watching foot ball
and drinking brew
They talk about the girls
Slanderous
Rude
Boastful
Crude
About their late night
fuck session
and how she let him
come over
He just needed to get laid he bragged
She wants me
She can’t get enough
He tapped it
with no dates
or promise
and left the next morning
It was so easy
He said
He has that kinda of influence over
women
They will take him
how they can get him
Feeling like he fit in
with the rest of the self proclaimed men
This boy
Felt as if he had a superman S on his chest
or a P for playa
He was accomplished and respected
because of the a.m pussy he conquered
She always met up with the girls
on ladies night
just to hang out
Single ready to mingle
So as the ladies do
while dressed in the latest attire
rocking their 600 dollar Jimmy choos
they talked about their latest men
Not once did his name come up in
the conversation
or did she consider to mention
about their early morning rendezvous
He was a boy to her
No one she would date
never mind take seriously
So it was even better that he only wanted to come over late
She receives calls from him
Trying to have small talk
beating around the bush
He thought of himself to be a real smooth talker
She had no clue what the fuck he was saying
She just wished he would get to the point
She had to work the next morning
it was already 2.a.m.
He was not the best in bed at all
She did not even expect a superior orgasm
She wasn’t sure if he knew where her clit was
but he was always available at that certain time
That juvenile energy
He was quick and easy
A hot body
dumb
mouthy
and very cocky
He had nothing she wanted or he could offer her
He still lived at his mamas house or had a roommate
He kinda dressed like a hip hop puppet
or some silly reality show character
Didn’t really matter
She did not have to be seen with him in public
Or neither did she care
“I just need to get laid”
The voice said in the back of her head
Don’t get me wrong, I love men! Especially if a man can handle himself in the bedroom! However, I do enjoy a little lady time as well. Now in our fake, overly conservative society, we as women have been told never to admit this in fear of not being respected. But fuck society and its opinions! Because a woman desires a feminine touch, does not make her some wild and crazy sex addict! Not saying there aren’t sex addicts out there. A woman does not have to tell everyone her personal business about who’s in her bedroom. She can keep a certain mystery about herself. But, she does not have to be embarrassed either!
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