It’s 2011 and we women are still allowing our sexuality to be judged by society. We still allow the words slut, whore, bitch, etc. to be used to slander our names. And out of fear of being degraded and labeled one of those titles, we keep our sexuality taboo and quiet. It’s time for change. We are standing at the origination of a powerful female nation. The pussy and its desire is nothing to be ashamed of. Just because a woman talks about the experiences of her pussy, does not make her any less of a woman. In fact, it elevates her to the epitome of womanhood because she accepts the spirituality, power, and influence her pussy has on the world. That’s why we have decided to take the word “slut” which is one of many words used to degrade women and claim it as a word of empowerment. We as women are no longer permitting others to use such words to define us. Rather, we’re choosing to redefine these words. We have that control and we’re ready to use it.
When a woman talks about how many lovers she has had or the fact she enjoys sex with different people, she’s labeled as something filthy. Other women may think that she lacks morals and the men may think she’s a sure thing but perhaps it’s something different. Perhaps she’s simply comfortable with her sexuality. Presuming such a woman lacks morality or would lay down with any man who’d have her does not agree with the statistics. Typically women who are comfortable with themselves, don’t believe that every man deserves the privilege. In fact, these women tend to have high standards for their lovers and and unwillingness to compromise them. These are very picky ladies but their standards don’t serve the purpose of sussing out some life-long mate. However, she still might not want a relationship. Ladies, just because you are attracted to a certain man doesn’t mean that another woman is attracted to him. Especially a slut! We don’t want your man! Men, just because it is known we have sex and like it, doesn’t mean we will fuck you!
The world has fooled people to think women that who use their sexuality to tempt men are all whores who really fuck anyone. Not so! Sex or sexy is a business like anything else. Any media geared towards any subject is a business! Just because a person hosts a talk show about eating healthy, doesn’t mean when the camera’s off they actually eat healthy. Also, there is a perception that a woman who uses her sex in any manner to create a business is not smart. That she does not have a brain that’s why she uses sex. This is also bullshit! Just like every rapper isn’t really a thug or every athlete isn’t a talented idiot. It’s entertainment! It could be a character being sold for business purposes. There are rappers who are college educated and never been to jail. There are very intelligent athletes. There are very smart women who still prefer to pursue sexuality. The media depends on the world holding on to stereotypes and labels. It’s good for sales! That’s why Hollywood hires publicist to create an image. Who do you think spreads the rumors? Who do you think releases the video tapes?
Talking about sex is a business. Acting sexual is a business. Flaunting promiscuity is also a business. Just because my blog mates and I talk openly about our experiences and are comfortable with our sex lives, doesn’t mean we sleep with or blow everybody. I know people will love to think that. And because they do, we will get a lot of attention and admirers. Great! You have contributed to our intentions. Don’t think for a minute that we just sleep around from man to woman to man to woman. If that is a fantasy that keeps you a fan, cool! We enjoy the fame that comes from it. It’s our career.But that is not our reality. We have decided to make talking about sex a profession. We practice freedom of speech. We decide who we are intimate with.
Tight
I expose my self
as a
really “loose”
ride
A really open and liberated
had over and over
as if I was born via
1975
The era of free love
and experimentation
woman
Wide as the sea
and as deep
You have to put on
scuba gear
and hours of oxygen
to get to my bottom
You would have to be
the size of 10 rulers
and as thick
as a telephone pole
just to fill my hole
That’s how I present myself
like I have opened
to let the world in
In a month’s time
I have sexually unwind
Once maybe twice
I have a private objective
a dark secret
I have yet to tell
that I am
choosey
and selective as hell
I love to use my mouth
and my pussy
willingly
to those
I’ve a picked
out of a small bundle
Yes I’ve made mistakes
sometimes I slip up and stumble
Giving to what I thought was a stallion
but that comes along with the territory
of living everyday
and exploring
OR
sometimes I
get really bored
and lonely
as most that are single do
I might
invite
a little spark over
late night
Still it’s a chosen few
who be
a survivor
after the sexual fury of me
I have a public image
I have to uphold
It’s a personality
a fame monster
that has been sold
True
I like it
True I have done things
To live up to it
Wild and spread
to many of dicks
not my shit
I still have my grip
But I like for my admirers to think it
I have an audience
I refuse to not give them what
they came here for.
They scream and beg
They expect more
Living vicariously
through the feral part of me
Iam sex
Breathing
walking
Taking
Nastiness
I’m a carefree
Non monogamy
Seductress
Privately
I’m
vulnerable
some what traditional
idealistic
and submissive
as if I was a
little house wife
with a white picket fence
If anyone had any commonsense
or insight
they wouldn’t
think that my pussy
was involved
In a 8 or 9 contestant cockfight
or it’s a
a huge den
of sexual immoral
sin
populate to be the size of
Wisconsin
Fitting over 10 thousand men
Honestly fuck their opinion
I am really
tired of being talked over
and attempted to be persuaded
These masculine tramps
who want me to be easy and
manipulated
To tap the ass
and spill their load
And widen me like
A 5 lane road
But no no no
I have to keep it together
contracted
constricted
kegel muscles
strong
Not stretched
shapeless and worn
I
Maybe or maybe not
one day
be
the right man’s wife
My bridal attire will be a ivory beige color
I’m not pure enough
to live up to virgin white
but still
I believe in a small portion of
virtue
and keep it tight