Dreaming of the Perfect Lover Part 1 (The Wild Night with the Sexy Man from Houston)

A couple of weekends ago I met this sophisticated and sexy gentleman from Texas; I definitely have a thing for southern men. Seems they know how to make a woman fall in love. And the way to get me is so simple but yet so hard for the men down here with a foreign sense of humor. Be confident, cool, and make me laugh;especially if I’m physically attracted to you. . And he is funny like Jamie Foxx who is someone I’m definitely crazy over. Or, better yet Will Smith. Yeah Will is pretty fucking hot!

From the first moment we bumped into each other in the crowded dark club, he knew just how to reel me in. He did that one move that I just can’t resist; he grabbed me around the waist and pulled me out on the dance floor. Not just any man can try this; he has to be fine! He was humorous and fun; but still very sexy and smooth. I hate men who take themselves too seriously.  I try my hardest to make fun of them.

We left the wild club and went out to the patio to hang out. I mean I haven’t laughed so hard in a long time. We talked about our southern families and our crazy grandmas. It was one of the best conversations I’ve had in the three years I’ve been here. I believe because of the familiarity there. I was use to this type of man; someone who was extremely funny, sophisticated, and educated. Most importantly no ex-wives and no babies!  Lately, for me it’s all about the men that I’m attracted to at first sight. No more settling! In my past, that’s how I’ve gotten in to trouble. I ended up with someone I never liked in the first place. My last boyfriend I avoided like the plague for a year. I don’t know how I ended up with that fucking low life. He use to pass me in the hall way and my mind would yell “piece of shit piece of shit!”

Finally I met a man who found it unattractive if marriage and babies would be brought up when we just met. It turns me off. I like to take things very slowly and not rush into anything. Also, I can’t stand some crazy religious nut case who really is an undercover psycho. Just make me laugh and show me you’re a good time and good guy; then you’ll have me.  I’m not into the possessive crazy ownership at first fuck kind of men. In fact, he hasn’t asked me once about any other men I’m dating. All he focuses on is he and I; which makes me feel like he sees me as an equal and gives that kind of respect. A man should never ask a lady who is in her bed unless they have agreed to a monogamous relationship. It’s rude and disrespectful.  Men just don’t get it, the more gentlemen like they act, the more a woman settles down and acts like a lady and gives them what they want.

By the end of the night of course sex was a subject dabbled on. But, I didn’t let the cat out of the bag. He doesn’t know the extent of my freak yet. Oh but after a couple of late night Skype conversations once he returned to Houston, he will soon. I know Janet and Sandra are trying to push me to take a flight out to Houston for the weekend.  They’ve given their approval after meeting him last night on Skype. One of our many late night calls with our favorite guys. I’ve been considering the trip.They are dying for me to get my brains fucked out on a regular bases. I’m not going to lie, I want the same thing.  I’m so ready for consistent good sex with a grown ass man.